I’m not too pleased with my girlfriend as of right now but opting not to vent about her I’ll instead vicariously vent about how raggedy these females can be. I’ve had some issues with women myself a time or two but I can honestly say that my friends have had it worse than me. Since I am friends with parties on both sides of these equations I will keep their names out my mouth. But two instances of raggediness stand out to me.
A friend of mine is in a long distance relationship with his girlfriend. For whatever reason she gets a bad feeling one evening and puts him under questioning. She expresses that she doesn’t feel comfortable. So in an effort to make her feel comfortable he closes down his blackplanet account. In an effort to decieve her he starts another one with the same text under a different name. This young lady is craftier than he had planned so when she finds out that he has started another BP page through some clever detective work he is both taken aback and left speechless. All he can do is apologize for trying to decieve her but she refuses his pleas. She sends him an email suggesting that she can’t ever trust him again and how this is the worst thing anyone has ever done to her. Then she promptly refuses his phone calls for the next week. So you’re wondering how this makes her raggedy? Hang on a sec. I’m getting there. So this sends my friend into a state of panic. He’s going to everyone he knows for advice. When he comes to me I tell him that he should probably just wait her out. She’ll come back around. He tells me that he’s not so sure about that. He asks if it would be a good idea for him to fly where she is and try to make ammends. I tell him very simply that I’m quite sure that would work. I still don’t feel it the best option but if he wants results that’s how to get them. SO he spends 600 dollars on a plane ticket to go make up for his wrongdoing. Keep in mind that he lied about starting a BP account. Well upon his arrival she basically says to him that she was expecting him. So she boycotted his phone calls to get him to spend 600 dollars on a plane ticket to prove his love. Not raggedy enough for you? Me neither. I was actually quite impressed. So anyway among the new conditions they set for their relationship he basically forgoes everything resembling privacy he ever had. He cancels his phone plan to get a family plan with her so that she can have access to her call log. He gives her all his passwords to his email/ Instant messenger accounts. He gives her copies of his credit card bills so she can evaluate his transactions. He turns himself into a great big puss at the push of a button to satisfy her insecurity. And she responds with more lip. More questions of his honesty. More investigation into his things. More distress over the nature of their relationship. Just a whole lot of hassle and lip. This is about the part where I start thinking maybe that’s a little raggedy but not too bad. So anyway, one afternoon she calls my friend and they are about to get off the phone when she says they need to discuss some things later. After a few guesses he asks if she slept with someone else? DO you know that raggedy Motherfucker says that she slept with another guy not once but twice in the past week? How raggedy is that? I mean let’s set aside that it’s raggedy to cheat on your significant other. But how can you even bring yourself to do it again after the first occassion and then after all you put him through about a blackplanet account. I swear fo’ Lawd these females out here.